Xander's Gay Times.

[Your Creamy Coolness]

I didn't really know what to title this. I always thought some of the things that Xander said or did that seemd slightly gay. For example: Anya getting him a limited edition Backstreet Boys Lunch Box? I just don't see a straight manly man wanting this. LOL And his admiration of Riley, I think he even said, he wanted to sleep with him after seeing The Initiative. Trying to come up with other things here....I am sure you will remember some. I am not saying Xander was gay, just some of the things he said or did seemed gayish!

[Panda]

hahahah yeah xander acts pretty homo. maybe because all he does all day is hang around a bunch of girls? he's bound to have developed a huge feminine side because of willow and buffy.

[Darling Faithy]

Def. Panda said it for me, haha. I think he's really metro because all he did was hang out with girly girls..he's bound to act a little gay when all hears about are cute boys, hair, makeup..you know? lol..but he didnt have bad taste in women, hello, cordelia and anya..both very pretty chicks..so metro couldnt have been to bad of a way for him to go..haha.

[crabby patty]

and dont forget Faith!

there is an episode - cant remember which one - where he says something about he so needs to get some male friends!!!

[Spirit_Of_Fred]

its from bargaining part 2:

XANDER: Maybe they're on their way here. I mean, this place is NORAD, and we are at DefCon One. (confused looks) Okay, I so need male friends.

[Lyri]

he also says something along those lines in S5...think it was 'Triangle' he says something macho or something and the girls don't get it, or something sexist and the girls are annoyed.

Xander: Too many girls. I miss Oz. He'd get it. He wouldn't say anything, but he'd get it.

i think i remember hearing something about orignially Xander was gonna be the one to come out, but Joss and Co. changed their minds. maybe they thought no one would wanna watch that? lmao

[Panda]

^ HAHAHAH yeah. willow and tara was definatly the better choice.

[Spirit_Of_Fred]

i think it was originally either willow or xander who would be gay, but then tara came along, and they were like, you know what? it should be willow :) and yay for that decision! :D

[Your Creamy Coolness]

I agree too. Anya wouldn't have been, and that would have been just tragic.

[eponinethen]

I'd say Xander acts pretty damn straight. Sure he's not the most stereotypically manly man on TV, but I haven't seen any signs what so ever that he'd be into guys. He's also sexually/romantically interested in almost all the girls he is hanging out with, at different times. I honestly don't see how a lunch box changes someone's sexual orientation.

I think this says something about Joss' opinion on stereotypical manliness, and what kind of male characters he wanted to create:
When I created Buffy, I wanted to create a female icon but I also wanted to be very careful to surround her with men who not only had no problem with the idea of a female leader, but were in fact, engaged and even attracted to the idea.[Equality Now speech transcript (http://popcultureheroines.com/2007/01/on-the-road-to-equality-with-joss-whedon/)]
(I know that isn't necessarily what you guys were talking about, but it sort of says something about Joss' dislike for stereotypes – when it comes to gender and gender roles – and I doubt that Joss would put in a lunch box as a hint about someone's sexual preference or unmanliness.)

(Having said that, I'm not saying Xander couldn't ever have any kind of interest in a guy, just, I haven't seen any signs of it on the show.)

[Buffy obsessed fan]

I think he can do things that seem pretty gay-ish like ya with the lunch box, and in Intervention, when he's talking about Spike saying how he's well muscled and all that, he doesn't seem like really GAY, just like a bit camp lol.

[definition of insane]

I think he's more of a closet nerd. He just has odd taste is fandom. :p

[Your Creamy Coolness]

Right I wasn't saying he was gay...I just didn't really know how to put it. It's like he occassionally queens out though. LOL JK He is an odd ball, that is what I love about him.

[Buffy obsessed fan]

Lol. Yeah, he may have strange mannerisms, but he's insanely loveable....great, is it just me or do I sound like Anya? LOL.

[blood4eva]

yo, that xander kids a homo, sh*t he didnt do nothin man.

[Crip4Life]

man blood4eva get outta here man why u hatin on xander man he was mad cat why u bloods always gotta be hatin on peeps man get da hell outta here man...

kiss my black a**...u know nothin about this show and u ain't know nothin bout life son.

[Bored of the Dead]

Ohh, gang warfare on Buffy Boards.

Love it

[blood4eva]

shut yo mouth fool aint ever no crip talkin sh*t 2 me and aint 1 gonna start now

[Crip4Life]

get outta here man hahaha n take yo red stuff with u coz buffy ate u kids for breakfast man u feel me?

bloods my ass man i tell u somethin i'm tyrone the blood slayer so ya'll betta watch yoself don't be hatin on buffy or smg aight and man why u gotta rip off my name like dat man?

man blood = rip off and a joke get get yo vampire ass outta here man hahaha

[Bored of the Dead]

I love middle class white boys playing at being 'gangsta' and its even funnier when it's online and it's the same person playing both.

[blood4eva]

hey man i aint no middle class white boy

[Crip4Life]

"I love middle class white boys playing at being 'gangsta' and its even funnier when it's online and it's the same person playing both."

LOOK MAN...I AIN'T NO MIDDLE CLASS WHITE BOY AIGHT I'M STRAIGHT OUTTA COMPTON BORN AND BREAD. I love BTVS which is unusual i get it but u know u gotta play 2 win and fight to live up in here so dis ain't no show dis is who i am i'm from gangsta city and i fight for what i believe...and i fight for appreciation of dis great show!

aye and for yo information...check his ip man he's a blood and he ain't me...i wouldn't pretend to be no blood if sum1 put a gun to my head aight...just so u know a bit bout me is all i dun mean no disrespect to u...

anyway man blood4life get da hell out i wanna talk bout stuff properly not wit u up in my hair n sh*t

[blood4eva]

this crip aint got the balls 2 beef wit me

[Crip4Life]

"this crip aint got the balls 2 beef wit me"

i dun waste my time on dumb kids aiight...and plus man u know how expensive 45 rounds are man not worth da trip 2 da store fool!

anyway yeh i noticed dat a lotta da time xander would be quite...u know...but like others have said itz probz coz hespends heaps of time with dem fine ass girls...hey but we know he is straight coz he got his freak on wit willow and cordelia

[blood4eva]

fine man i admit xander was no homo but i know man dat the show is racist not enough black chicks

Edit:

crips can't get da good brown suga even if it slapped dem in da 8=======D

[Bored of the Dead]

Interesting that 'Blood4eva' and 'Crip4Life' both joined in the same month.

Ohh and I work in IT. Let me tell you something interesting about IP addresses. You can change the one on your computer as often as you like.
Also, an IP address only tells you the computer and not the location.
You could be Bob Carolgees from Stoke on Trent and Spit the Dog sat next to Bob but on a different lap top/computer and for all intent and purpose you are in different locations.

So, my holmes after that basic lesson i'll leave you to dissing each other and get me some booty wit ma ho while you mash it up with each other...dawg

[Crip4Life]

yeh not enough black chicks...but still man as if crips control most of dat sh*t man ask ne1 yo look man i'm gonna write a buffy fan fic and ya'll can read it later...i'm glad i could read dis discussion bout xander because i need more insight into his character 1st...

and blood man get da hell out how many times i gotta repeat myself fool u ain't nothin u just sad aight ya'll wudn't know pu**y if it got u ticklish in the behind foool oh snap back at ya

hahahaha anyway i dun wanna be disrespectful just this blood dude keeps following me around on forums and stuff i am legit seriously i swear on god...mom...biggie...2pac i am legit.

Edit:

"So, my holmes after that basic lesson i'll leave you to dissing each other and get me some booty wit ma ho while you mash it up with each other...dawg"

look man i am for real check it up on da database i dunno whateva man just lettin u know i ain't comin up in here to start no sh*t wit dis blood but dem bloods dunno when to get nuf u know...iz like dey wanna lose a knee cap

[blood4eva]

man u both crackheads

[Bored of the Dead]

For real!

Just ignore tha 'motha' and i'm sure you will enjoy this site.
;)