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dromeda
07-15-2008, 11:17 PM
I've been addicted to Buffy for a long time, I just wasn't aware of it. I first got into the Buffyverse some years back when FX was airing episodes 4 times a day. I had radically cut down my TV viewing at the time, and yet somehow the TV was always on when Buffy was, I found myself glued to the screen when Buffy was on, sitting directly in front (no remote, and I was only watching for a second, so why move to a chair), my thumb hovering over the off switch, and yet never pressing down. I would be crouched in front of the TV the whole 2 hours. I berated myself for lack of a spine. How weak to be a slave to TV! After being engrossed I would try to shake it off, and promise myself I wouldn't watch the next day. TV bad! I didn't comprehend what was happening.
While buying LOTR dvds off some random guy, he mentioned he had 2 Buffy seasons as well, he'd throw them in cheap. What the hell, I thought. I didn't even own a DVD player, so the seasons just sat in my closet. Yet I could sometimes hear them, scrambling about in there, clicking their teeth and burrowing into my psyche. I moved to a new house, where my roomie had a DVD player. I somehow demolished the seasons I owned within a week. I felt shame. Bad me, bad TV, be good, escape the corporations, my inner self cried and critiqued. I ignored my pleas and inner criticism, like an addict I found myself systematically searching local video stores in hopes of renting the other seasons, trolling, hunting, patrolling with no luck.
I promised myself it was over, I was done. Then I found a website that allowed me to watch Buffy online. I threw up my hands in disgust. I convinced myself that once I watched the seasons through my strange Buffy-itch would be scratched. I was ashamed. I kept it a secret. I only told my then-boyfriend. I must have been really enthusiastic about my viewership, because he bought me all the seasons for my bday. I had recently moved to another house, and was unemployed, I should have been looking for work, but I became a couch potato until I had run through all seven. I've been rerunning them ever since, slowly becoming ok with the guilt.
Last year, I attended ComicCon, and discovered the comics. I got a cheap small free Buffy poster and spotted another fan striding by dressed as Spike. I was so excited. And startled. And giggly. I remember thinking, oh, this what Trekkies feel like. A month ago I discovered fan fiction, Peasant's Plot, Three Deep, and now the wonderful community on Buffy Boards. I'm a little slow on the uptake, forgive me, but now I realize I'm not addicted to TV, I'm addicted to Buffy. I didn't give in to corporate america, I gave in to Joss, to feminism, to quips and angst, and my creative fellow-fans. I have nothing to feel guilty about. This is my confession to sympathetic souls. Finally, I get it. I love the Buffyverse. And I couldn't be happier.

MSchett
07-15-2008, 11:20 PM
lol welcome!! youll find alot of ppl here obbessed with buffy ;)
dont feel guilty the buffyverse is amazing. see you around the boards

to meet new ppl i suggest you go to Slayers Tome to get assigned to a house

feel free to ask me if u want a banner for ur signature :)

Aethra
07-16-2008, 12:05 AM
I'm glad you've given into your Buffyverse love now! I understand, though, sometimes it takes a while.

Welcome to the boards!

The Kinslayer
07-16-2008, 02:11 AM
Wonderful intro! And welcome to the family. It´s never too late. If you neeed any help what so ever just drop me a message or anything. But you can always get adopted to get a "proper" mentor. Just visit Bad Eggs - Buffy-Boards (http://www.buffy-boards.com/forumdisplay.php?f=281) and you´ll have one in no time. And as MSchett said, a visit to the The Sorting Tome (http://www.buffy-boards.com/showthread.php?t=33120If) should be a given.

See ya around!

edb
07-16-2008, 02:50 AM
Hello and welcome to the boards! :) Loved the intro btw! :D

Summers Blood
07-16-2008, 03:01 AM
Haha! Love the intro.... anyway

WELCOME TO BUFFY BOARDS!

I'm sure you'll find that most of us are in the same situation as you! lol

Mr. Pointy
07-16-2008, 03:38 AM
Kinslayer beat me to it again! :) The official welcome post is going to get shorter and shorter :D

Anyhoo...welcome to the BB dromeda :welcome:
Is your first name Anne, by any chance?

By now you should have received a welcome PM...can I recommend that you click all the links to get the most out of your BB experience :)

OldSwede
07-16-2008, 04:21 AM
Very welcome indeed, loved your introduction! Greetings from a fellow addict. See you around the boards.

Bluebird
07-16-2008, 06:02 AM
Hey, great introduction. Welcome to the boards! :)

Fake Shemp
07-16-2008, 06:11 AM
own your love for the whedonverse, no shame, hope to see you around the boards! WELCOME!

SpikedBuffy
07-16-2008, 08:24 AM
:woot: for Buffy love!

Welcome to the boards!

Bangelxx
07-16-2008, 08:27 AM
don't worry, we ALL are rabid Buffy addicts here :):p

Cangel
07-16-2008, 08:29 AM
Welcome to the Boards :D

And yay, good for you, finally coming out of the Buffy closet :D

Blondie Bear
07-16-2008, 09:11 AM
:dancecalv

Welcome! We are all here to stoke the Buffy obsession. Expect no Buffy Anonymous 5-step thing here.

Joyce Summers
07-16-2008, 11:21 AM
Lovely, entertaining read of an introduction! You're SO gonna blend in well here, haha. Welcome to the boards! :D

SC7 Fan
07-16-2008, 01:41 PM
Hey welcome to the boards! I'm Ceidleigh but you can call me KK, everyone can.

LifeIsJustThis
07-16-2008, 01:58 PM
Haha! Same here...I feel for you.

Keanoite
08-01-2008, 04:52 AM
Hey there! :welcome: to the Buffy-Boards! I'm Kean:) If you need any help getting around this place feel free to drop me a line. Have fun:D

Tranquillity
08-02-2008, 01:08 AM
That was a hell of an introduction!! Just brilliant. Welcome to the boards and enjoy!

VisionGuy
08-04-2008, 09:46 AM
It's about time we got some fresh blood around here. Welcome to Buffy Boards.

Buffy Summers
08-04-2008, 07:51 PM
Welcome to the boards :D