When I came here, I mentioned a few times how happy I was to find not only a like-minded community, but also a friendly one. I still stick by that. Sure, a couple of times I've disagreed with someone or they've disagreed with me, but it's never been a personal or a malicious thing. Saying this, I've also not been a member for long, so I've not seen any historical issues.
I'm really sorry that someone has been bullied to the point of being physically upset. That's not on and I'm glad it's been dealt with. I hope whoever it is is ok and they can move on from it. It's so easy to take something the wrong way in written communication.
I'm really saddened however that it's come to an entire section of the Buffy community's views being censored, but this is clearly a last resort to an issue that has been festering for a long time. It must be very tough to have to police one section 24/7 "just in case" so I can understand the reasoning behind it, even though, as a Spuffy fan, it will affect me personally as I love talking to fellow fans. It won't stop me contributing to the boards though, because my life doesn't revolve around my choice of ship. I love all of Buffy and will continue to want to talk about it.
But look, it's only the internet, it's only a forum, maybe now people will learn to play nicely with each other.