Debate: what actually happened with Spuffy relationship

[SpikeRocks]

I find you incredibly rude with this whole "Angel's blinders" thing.

It's ok to feel that way 👍 Though let's not forget your real sassy comment at me, which I was responding to 😉 Having "blinder's" has nothing to do with me clashing with your differing opinion. I used it only in instances where you overlooked/ignored actions and behaviors that "re-told" the story to some degree.

 

[FaithLehane16]

At least in Buffy, a vampire watching a girl sleep is considered creepy rather than romantic.

I watch my boyfriend sleep. Oz watched Willow sleep. Angel, Riley, and Spike watched Buffy sleep.

 

[thrasherpix]

I watch my boyfriend sleep. Oz watched Willow sleep. Angel, Riley, and Spike watched Buffy sleep.

I apologize for saying you were trolling. I realize now that you probably didn't get the reference. (Though if you did then I stand by it.)

In Twilight (I speak of the book, but know at least this scene is in the movie), Edward stalks Bella which includes breaking into her home, punishing her as if she's a kid (like taking her keys so she can't drive as if he were her father), and basically does things that would land most men in jail (no matter how much he may genuinely be attracted to her and want her to feel the same back--though Edward does also display outright threatening behavior toward her as well, including in the movie), though it's framed as romantic. This includes where he breaks in to watch her while she's sleeping (I think more than once). I was contrasting this to where Angelus watch Buffy sleeps and leaves a drawing behind which isn't a lover watching a partner you share a bed with, but deliberately meant to threaten and terrorize someone he's stalking.

Just for fun, this person mixed the specific scene from Twilight and Buffy that I really like: