The knights were actively doing something, Ben was not. That's the difference. That the knights were threats in the exact moment, Ben was a threat for the future. And they easily could have staged the scene so Buffy had to kill him. But frankly it just reads as a normal hero kills tons of mooks without thought, tells the main villain they won't kill them because they're not a murderer scene
Had her character been male, she would have been rightfully considered a weak coward who shirked her responsibility, not a hero.
Yes, you are 100% right. She did not kill him. I think it was a dumb, sexist & financial decision by execs or writers.
You believe what you believe. That her "not being able to kill humans" makes her heroic. Since by that time she has killed several humans and led dozens of kids into a deadly battle with the mayor, i think her view is adult. You fight evil; people die. It isn't fun or desirable but sometimes it is necessary.
We may not think of Angel as human but she saw him as the man she loved. She ended his life because it was needed to stop the threat.
What they had her NOT do with Ben was therefore illogical.
I don't think she killed Angel because he was a demon. She killed him because Acathla was a threat and his death ended the threat.
IMO, the writers (or execs) missed a chance to have her make the hard and *right* choice - to make sure the threat was ended. To show her strength.
I believe what i believe. Please stop trying to show me i am wrong. I am expressing my SETTLED opinion about a 30 year old show. You cannot school me or "prove me wrong". I cannot school you or "fix" your opinion. *It is not my job to agree with you.*
I even repeatedly concede your facts. Always will. I may never agree with your opinions, however.
You are not winning the internet. You cant. No one can. I cannot either - even if i am "correct". I will not change your mind. I accept that. I accept the facts.
I have also seen every episode of the series many times and i have my own understanding of the series. I have my opinions. They do evolve. But they cannot be beaten out of me because you don't like them.
We will not agree on this. I will not change my mind. I cannot change yours.