DeepBlueJoy
Lion Faced Kitteh
Don't like who Willow moved on with, but as someone who was widowed very young, I will say something... If you are in a happy relationship, full of love and connection, you miss it more, not less, and I think you're more likely to form a new relationship quickly... This may not be wise, but it is understandable. There's a gaping hole in your love map.
I think it's actually not that surprising that she'd hook up with the (probably only) other lesbian person in town at the end of the world...
I see it as being (a) an experimental pairing and (b) a need for connection... to test out the whole idea of being with a person after you had such a strong relationship and to get laid/feel a connection when you just might die tonight.
I really didn't like Kennedy, but I did like that Willow did get to not be all alone and to move forward. I usually write it as canon, but pretty much over by the time the bus ride out of town is done. It doesn't strike me as a relationship that could survive a return to normal life. Why? They have NOTHING in common.
No one can diminish your previous love but you. Getting laid or just being close to someone is something we all need. Soldiers in war in particular need to feel connected to life and nothing does that more than love and/or a warm body next to you. They were all they had at the end of the world... in the end, literally.
Don't judge people who have been widowed. Every one of us is different. Some cannot bear to be touched by another, almost ever. Some crave a connection b/c we have so much love to give that it leaks out and we feel almost a compulsion to connect again. It can lead to mistakes, but I don't think judgment of 'too soon' is anyone's business. In my own case, I'm not sure I would ever have had another relationship if I hadn't gotten involved soon after... I would have probably gotten used to being on my own, and no one could compare to him, so I would have formed a shell and lived in our (idealized) past... I actually told the man I eventually married that I would never marry or have another relationship (this was before we ever dated)!! 🙄
What is the evidence that Kennedy is from a wealthy family, btw. I honestly can't remember. I know I have written her that way, but I can't remember why. Guess I need to do a rewatch.
I think it's actually not that surprising that she'd hook up with the (probably only) other lesbian person in town at the end of the world...
I see it as being (a) an experimental pairing and (b) a need for connection... to test out the whole idea of being with a person after you had such a strong relationship and to get laid/feel a connection when you just might die tonight.
I really didn't like Kennedy, but I did like that Willow did get to not be all alone and to move forward. I usually write it as canon, but pretty much over by the time the bus ride out of town is done. It doesn't strike me as a relationship that could survive a return to normal life. Why? They have NOTHING in common.
My major problem with Kennedy is that it just happened too quickly. Clearly, Willow was barely over the loss of Tara, and suddenly she's got a new girlfriend. I realize, things were rushed, what with that being the final Season, which Joss almost certainly knew from the start, whether anyone else did, or not, but, still, it just seemed to me that it somehow diminished Tara's memory.
No one can diminish your previous love but you. Getting laid or just being close to someone is something we all need. Soldiers in war in particular need to feel connected to life and nothing does that more than love and/or a warm body next to you. They were all they had at the end of the world... in the end, literally.
Don't judge people who have been widowed. Every one of us is different. Some cannot bear to be touched by another, almost ever. Some crave a connection b/c we have so much love to give that it leaks out and we feel almost a compulsion to connect again. It can lead to mistakes, but I don't think judgment of 'too soon' is anyone's business. In my own case, I'm not sure I would ever have had another relationship if I hadn't gotten involved soon after... I would have probably gotten used to being on my own, and no one could compare to him, so I would have formed a shell and lived in our (idealized) past... I actually told the man I eventually married that I would never marry or have another relationship (this was before we ever dated)!! 🙄
What is the evidence that Kennedy is from a wealthy family, btw. I honestly can't remember. I know I have written her that way, but I can't remember why. Guess I need to do a rewatch.
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